What to Look for in a Divorce Support Expert (And Why It Matters)
- Lisa McNally
- Aug 21
- 3 min read
Divorce Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All — And Neither Is the Right Divorce Support Expert
Going through a divorce means making high-stakes decisions while dealing with emotional overwhelm, financial fear, and legal complexity. You don’t need a generalist. You need a divorce support expert who knows the terrain—and who brings both credentials and compassion to the table.
I founded Optimal Divorce Solutions to help individuals like you navigate the chaos with clear, strategic support. With multiple divorce-specific certifications, I provide comprehensive guidance in:
Emotional support
Financial analysis
Legal prep
Real estate strategy
Here’s what to look for in a divorce support expert—and why it matters.
1. Do They Offer Legal Preparation Support?
Many divorce professionals shy away from the legal side, but you need someone who understands how to prepare you to work effectively with your attorney. Look for someone who:
Knows the language attorneys speak
Can help you get organized for legal meetings
Supports efficient case progression to reduce fees
At Optimal Divorce Solutions, I act as a Client Preparation Specialist for legal teams, helping streamline communication and reduce attorney burnout.
2. Are They Financially Fluent?
Money matters in divorce. But not all coaches understand:
Cash flow forecasting
Division of assets and liabilities
Long-term impact of proposed settlements
As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®), I model future financial scenarios to help you understand the true cost of your divorce.
3. Can They Handle High-Stakes Property Decisions?
Dividing a home or multiple properties? You need someone with:
Divorce-specific real estate training
Market knowledge in your region
Experience working with attorneys, lenders, and appraisers
As a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE®) and Licensed Real Estate Broker, I guide clients through complex property division decisions and bring calm clarity to emotionally charged real estate matters.
4. Can They Keep You Grounded Emotionally?
Divorce triggers fear, anger, confusion, and grief. That emotional fog can cloud your judgment and sabotage your legal outcomes. A qualified divorce support expert should offer emotional grounding, not therapy—a coach who helps you:
Stay focused
Communicate clearly
Prioritize effectively
That’s where my Certified Divorce Coach credential makes a meaningful difference.
5. Do They Provide Mediation Services?
A strong divorce support expert can also help you avoid litigation by offering or supporting mediation. As a Certified Divorce Mediator, I:
Facilitate communication
Help couples reach mutual agreements
Save clients thousands in litigation fees
Why This Matters
Divorce is too important to rely on guesswork or generic advice. Choosing a support expert who is deeply credentialed ensures:
Fewer costly mistakes
Greater peace of mind
A clear path forward
When your expert can cover emotional, financial, legal prep, and real estate guidance, you're empowered to make smarter decisions—with less stress.
Key Takeaways
Vet your divorce support expert's credentials
Look for professionals who address legal, emotional, financial, and property needs
Choose someone who collaborates well with attorneys
Prioritize divorce-specific certifications, not general life coaching
If you're ready to work with someone who checks every box and advocates for your best outcome, I'm here to help. Schedule a Free Consultation and let's get started.
Lisa McNally
Certified Divorce Coach | Certified Divorce Mediator | Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®)
Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE®) | Licensed Real Estate Broker (NH & ME)
Founder, Optimal Divorce Solutions
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