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Divorce Insights Blog
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Divorce, Real Estate & Financial Clarity Blog
Expert articles on divorce coaching, mediation, financial planning, and real estate decisions.
Divorce is overwhelming—but you don’t have to face it alone. Explore practical advice on mediation, financial clarity, and real estate decisions to move forward with confidence.


What Divorcing Homeowners Need to Understand About Market Conditions
Real estate decisions during divorce are shaped by timing, market conditions, and long-term financial impact. Many people assume that real estate decisions during divorce are primarily personal or emotional choices—something to address once the legal process is underway or after an agreement is reached. The common belief is that the housing market will still be there when the dust settles, and that timing can be adjusted later if needed. In reality, this assumption creates si
Lisa McNally
Jul 284 min read


The Risk of Making Real Estate Decisions Without Divorce-Specific Guidance
Real estate decisions during divorce require guidance that accounts for timing, trade-offs, and long-term impact. When a home is involved in divorce, many people assume real estate decisions are straightforward. A house is a house, a sale is a sale, and experienced real estate professionals handle transactions every day. As long as the market value makes sense and the paperwork is correct, the decision must be sound. That assumption creates risk. Making real estate decisions
Lisa McNally
Jul 74 min read


Why Divorce Real Estate Decisions Shouldn’t Be Rushed
Real estate decisions made during divorce shape stability long after the process ends. When divorce involves a home, urgency often takes over. People feel pressure to “just decide,” to sell quickly, to keep the house no matter what, or to resolve the issue so they can move on emotionally. The assumption is that faster decisions reduce stress and shorten the divorce process. In reality, rushing real estate decisions during divorce often does the opposite. Divorce real estate d
Lisa McNally
Jun 164 min read


How Divorce Timing Affects Real Estate Decisions
In divorce, when real estate decisions are made can matter as much as what decision is made. When divorce and real estate intersect, many people assume the house decision can be handled whenever the paperwork catches up. The belief is that timing is flexible—that you can sort out the emotional side first and deal with the property later, or vice versa. That assumption creates more risk than most people realize. In reality, divorce timing affects real estate decisions in ways
Lisa McNally
May 264 min read


Divorce and the Family Home: What Most People Don’t Consider
Decisions about the family home often shape life long after divorce is final. When people think about divorce and the family home, the conversation usually starts—and ends—with one question: Who’s keeping the house? That framing feels logical. The home is often the largest asset, emotionally charged, and tied to stability, children, and identity. But focusing on ownership alone is one of the most common ways people create avoidable risk during divorce. The family home is not
Lisa McNally
May 54 min read


What Happens When One Spouse Wants the House and the Other Wants Out: A Divorce Home Decision
Decisions about the marital home often begin as conversations, not conclusions. The assumption that the house is the problem When couples disagree about what to do with the marital home during divorce, it often gets framed as a real estate issue. One person wants to stay. The other wants to sell and move on. The house becomes the focal point of tension, negotiation, and sometimes conflict. But in most cases, the house itself is not the real problem. What’s actually happening
Lisa McNally
Apr 144 min read


The Financial and Emotional Trade-Offs of Selling the Home in Divorce
Selling the home in divorce requires balancing financial outcomes with emotional readiness. Selling the marital home during divorce is often presented as the most logical or “cleanest” option. It can simplify asset division, release equity, and create a clear financial break. On paper, it frequently looks like the most practical decision. But in reality, selling the home in divorce involves both financial and emotional trade-offs —and focusing on only one side can lead to out
Lisa McNally
Mar 174 min read


Why Keeping the Marital Home Isn’t Always the Safer Option
Keeping the marital home after divorce can feel safe—but requires careful consideration. For many people going through divorce, keeping the marital home feels like the safest choice available. It represents familiarity, stability, and a sense of control during a time when everything else feels uncertain. Especially when children are involved, the home can feel like the last remaining anchor. But despite how common this assumption is, keeping the marital home isn’t always the
Lisa McNally
Mar 34 min read


Why Real Estate Decisions in Divorce Are Rarely Just Financial
Real estate decisions during divorce often involve emotional and practical considerations beyond the numbers. When people think about real estate decisions in divorce, they often focus on numbers—market value, mortgage balances, equity, or affordability. Those details matter, but they are rarely the full story. In reality, real estate decisions in divorce are rarely just financial . They are deeply tied to emotion, identity, stability, and the future people are trying to crea
Lisa McNally
Feb 104 min read


Should You Sell the House During Divorce—or Later?
Timing decisions about the family home can shape long-term stability after divorce. Few divorce decisions carry as much emotional and financial weight as deciding what to do with the family home. For many people, the question isn’t simply whether to sell—but when . Should the house be sold during divorce, or is it better to wait until later? There is no universal right answer. What matters is understanding how timing affects financial stability, emotional well-being, and lon
Lisa McNally
Jan 204 min read


Why the Family Home Is Often the Most Emotionally Charged Divorce Asset
The family home often holds emotional meaning far beyond its financial value. When people think about dividing assets in divorce, they often assume the most difficult decisions will involve money—bank accounts, retirement funds, or support arrangements. In reality, the family home is frequently the most emotionally charged and complex asset in the entire divorce process. This isn’t because the home is always the most valuable on paper. It’s because it carries meaning that e
Lisa McNally
Dec 23, 20254 min read


Buying a Home Before Divorce Is Final: What You Need to Know
Considering a home purchase during divorce? Learn what to consider before signing. Going through a divorce is already a complex process. If you're considering buying a new home before your divorce is finalized or before you are legally separated, you’re not alone. Many individuals feel the urge to start fresh, emotionally and physically, by establishing a new home. But this decision comes with significant financial, legal, and emotional implications. While this post is not in

Lisa McNally
Aug 30, 20254 min read


Why You Need a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE) to Sell Your Home
Working with a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE) ensures your home sale is handled with professionalism, neutrality, and care. Selling the marital home is one of the most emotionally and financially significant aspects of divorce. It's not just a transaction; it's a critical part of your future stability. If you're navigating divorce and one of your biggest assets is real estate, the professional you choose to guide you through the sale matters more than ever. That’

Lisa McNally
Aug 22, 20253 min read


Why Multi-Certified Expertise Makes the Difference in Divorce Guidance
Discover how working with a multi-certified divorce professional—CDFA®, Mediator, Coach, and CDRE®—delivers unmatched clarity, strategy, and results.

Lisa McNally
Aug 21, 20253 min read


What to Do If One Spouse Wants to Keep the House
Deciding whether one spouse can keep the home requires careful financial and legal review. The Emotional and Financial Weight of the Marital Home For many divorcing couples, the family home is more than just property—it's memories, stability, and security. As a Certified Divorce Coach, Mediator, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®), I frequently work with clients facing the question: What should happen to the house? It's one of the most significant decisions durin

Lisa McNally
Aug 12, 20254 min read


Navigating a Buyout: How to Keep the Home Without Financial Fallout
Accurate home valuation and financial analysis are essential steps when navigating a divorce buyout. For many divorcing couples, the family home is more than just a property—it's a symbol of stability, comfort, and identity. But when the marriage ends, tough decisions must be made. One common scenario is a buyout, where one spouse wants to keep the home and compensate the other for their share of the equity. As a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE), Certified Divorce

Lisa McNally
Aug 9, 20254 min read


How a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE) Can Save You Time, Stress, and Money
Lisa McNally, Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE) and Licensed Broker in NH & ME, provides trusted real estate guidance during divorce proceedings. Why a CDRE Is Essential in High-Stakes Divorces Navigating real estate during divorce can be overwhelming, especially when emotions are high and financial stakes are even higher. That’s where I come in—as a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE), I provide the insight, neutrality, and expertise needed to ensure your p

Lisa McNally
Aug 8, 20253 min read


Divorce, Real Estate, and Credit Scores: Protecting Your Financial Future
Divorcing couples often feel overwhelmed by the financial impact on their credit—especially when real estate and shared debt are involved. Divorce doesn’t just split a marriage—it often splits financial stability. And one of the most overlooked casualties in the process is your credit score. If real estate is involved, the stakes are even higher. From shared mortgages to missed payments and lingering liabilities, your credit can take a serious hit if the process isn’t handled

Lisa McNally
Jul 22, 20254 min read


How to Choose the Right Real Estate Agent When You're Divorcing
Choosing a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE) can protect your financial interests and reduce conflict during divorce. Navigating divorce is never easy, and when the marital home is involved, emotions and financial stakes can escalate quickly. One of the most important decisions you'll make during this process is selecting the right real estate agent. If you're divorcing, the wrong agent can cost you time, money, and peace of mind. The right one, however—particularly

Lisa McNally
Jul 21, 20254 min read


When One Spouse Wants to Sell and the Other Doesn't: What to Do
When spouses can’t agree on selling the home during divorce, conflict can escalate—expert guidance helps you navigate forward with clarity and control. In a perfect world, divorcing couples would agree on everything—including what to do with the family home. But in reality, it's not uncommon for one spouse to want to sell the property while the other refuses. Emotions run high, financial fears surface, and the house becomes a battleground. This is especially true in high-net-

Lisa McNally
Jul 19, 20254 min read
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