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Divorce Insights Blog
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Divorce, Real Estate & Financial Clarity Blog
Expert articles on divorce coaching, mediation, financial planning, and real estate decisions.
Divorce is overwhelming—but you don’t have to face it alone. Explore practical advice on mediation, financial clarity, and real estate decisions to move forward with confidence.


Dividing Home Equity in a Divorce: What You Need to Know
Key Takeaways Home equity is a significant marital asset and must be carefully assessed during divorce proceedings. Options for dividing home equity include selling the home, one spouse buying out the other, or co-owning temporarily. Determining the home’s value through an appraisal or market analysis is a critical first step. Refinancing may be necessary if one spouse decides to keep the home. Consulting a divorce mediator or real estate expert can simplify the process and e

Lisa McNally
Jun 17, 20253 min read


How to Handle Joint Ownership of a Home After Divorce
Key Takeaways Joint ownership of a home after divorce requires clear communication and a formal agreement. Decide whether to sell, buy out, or retain shared ownership based on financial and practical considerations. Co-owning temporarily can provide stability for children or accommodate market conditions. Responsibilities for mortgage payments, taxes, and maintenance must be clearly defined. Consulting with a divorce mediator and real estate expert can simplify the process an

Lisa McNally
May 6, 20253 min read


Can You Afford to Keep the House After Divorce? 5 Questions to Ask
Key Takeaways Assessing the affordability of keeping the marital home requires a thorough understanding of your post-divorce financial situation. Consider ongoing expenses, such as mortgage payments, taxes, and maintenance costs, when evaluating your ability to keep the home. Refinancing the mortgage in one spouse’s name is often necessary and depends on credit and income qualifications. Emotional attachments to the home should be balanced with practical financial considerati

Lisa McNally
Apr 29, 20253 min read


Who Gets the House During a Divorce? Key Factors to Know
Key Takeaways Deciding who gets the house during a divorce depends on factors like ownership, financial feasibility, and the best interests of children. States follow either community property or equitable distribution laws to divide assets, including real estate. Options for the marital home include selling, one spouse buying out the other, or co-ownership. Emotional and financial considerations play a significant role in real estate decisions during divorce. A divorce media

Lisa McNally
Apr 15, 20253 min read


How the Housing Market Affects Divorced Sellers and Buyers
Key Takeaways The housing market directly impacts the timing, pricing, and strategy for divorced sellers and buyers. Understanding market trends, such as buyer’s or seller’s markets, can help divorcing couples make informed decisions. Rising interest rates can increase costs for buyers and limit refinancing options for sellers. A divorce real estate expert can provide insights to navigate market fluctuations effectively. The emotional and financial stakes are high during divo

Lisa McNally
Mar 18, 20253 min read


How Divorce Mediation Can Simplify Real Estate Decisions
Key Takeaways Divorce mediation provides a neutral, collaborative environment for resolving real estate disputes. Mediators help both parties explore options like selling, buying out, or co-owning the marital home. Mediation often saves time and money compared to litigation. The process fosters better communication, reducing conflict and promoting fair outcomes. Working with a mediator who understands real estate ensures decisions are informed and practical. Mediation helps p

Lisa McNally
Mar 11, 20253 min read


How Refinancing a Home Works After Divorce
Key Takeaways Refinancing a home after divorce allows one spouse to keep the property while removing the other from the mortgage. The process typically involves applying for a new loan in one spouse’s name. Lenders will assess income, credit score, and debt-to-income ratio to determine eligibility. An accurate home appraisal is essential to understand equity and set fair terms. Refinancing can provide funds to buy out a spouse’s share of equity. Consulting with a divorce real

Lisa McNally
Feb 25, 20253 min read


How to Sell Your House During a Divorce: A Step-by-Step Guide
Key Takeaways Selling your house during a divorce can simplify asset division and provide financial clarity. Proper preparation, including staging and repairs, can help maximize your home’s value. Working with a divorce real estate expert ensures a neutral, professional approach. Timing your sale strategically can impact how quickly and profitably your home sells. Transparent communication with your spouse and real estate agent is crucial to a smooth process. Consulting profe

Lisa McNally
Feb 18, 20253 min read


What Happens to the Marital Home in a Divorce? Options to Consider
Key Takeaways The marital home is often the most valuable asset in a divorce and requires careful consideration. Options for the marital home typically include selling, one spouse buying out the other, or co-owning temporarily. Each option has unique financial, legal, and emotional implications that must be evaluated. Factors such as children, affordability, and market conditions often influence the decision. Consulting with a divorce real estate expert can provide clarity an

Lisa McNally
Feb 11, 20253 min read
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